Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Its time to bid adieu for 2009 !
Lets take this time to think The assets We've made this year.
Assets ?? yes
The smiles you Own !
The smiles you bought !
Lets look back what we've done this year, how many hearts smiled because of us !
Not to take pride on, but to make sure we ramp up the count in the BIG 2010 !!
Also neva forget to count on the hearts which got hurt bcoz of us, knowingly or unknowingly.
Lets take a bit of time to say a sorry, not by words necessarily.
Lets thank God for giving us the best of Life, making circumstances such that we learnt life at every step of it.
Don wanna be philosophical, but felt like it makes sense to say.
An event happened sometime back...
A Small Kid was playin while his father was washing his hard earned Luxury Sedan.
The kid saw the dad washing the Bonnet of the car, His father watched the Kid goin and the back of car, picking a stone from the road. Before the father could react, the kid started scratching the Doors of the car. The father was terribly pissed seein what the kid was doin. Gone to the peak of temper, he took the wrench and spanner that was lying on the floor and started smacking the kid on his hands for doin so. In a moment the father realized he had badly hurt the kid, the kid was with all bleeding hands by that time. He realized the seriousness, and immediately taking the kid in the car to a nearby hospital.
The kid was taken in to an emergency admit room and he was treated by the doctors. In a matter of 15 minutes the doctor got back to the father and informed him that the kids fingers has got ruptured fracture and probably 7 of his fingers might have to be removed. The Father was totally baffled and crestfallen. He felt like tormented for what he has done to the kid. A moment later he went to the car and he was all stumbled seeing that.
The Kid Scratched glossy skin of the Car, but guess what he has scratched, it was "Papa, I Luv yo !"
That evening the Father went back home and committed Suicide.Its a real time incident.
So We've a very big lesson to learn from these things.
" Things are meant to be Used, People are meant to be Loved , but
We've started loving things and using people"
LEts change, lets make the change too !!
Curtain is Down, Just to Unwrap the better Screen : 2010 !!
Wishing you all a very great year ahead, Let every endeavour of yours give you the best you deserve !!
Keep Accumulating assets., make people smile !! :)
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Friday, November 6, 2009
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Tuesday, August 18, 2009
March 8, 1995…The little boy turned 8, As usual, my dad made up the arrangement for the b’day party and things were getting ready, friends were invited and yuh family too.,
Last year it was a bi-cycle, So what’ll be it for this year, My dad knew all the tricks to excite me., It was 6 odd , Dressed up in ma new clothing, friends n family have gathered.,It was all fun outta there., We all had a sumptuous dinner accompanied by my mom’s special “Mysore Poli”… The eve was simply awesome. My dad made it special as usual., Everyone left the party. I was tired but still with all excitement and expectation in heart about whatz gonna be dad’s gift., He never left out a word till now.., My dad took me in his arms and said “I’m sorry I jus have this to gift you this year “, and kissed my cheeks, being a kid that was quite disappointing, but matured enough not to reveal that., “Its OK papa, Its worth a lot” and kissed him back...
Chin Down, I turned back, started walking towards my cycle…A hand grabbed me from the back, raised me up the ceiling and kissed, I knew it was my dad., I sensed ma mom’s animated smile beside…Dad said “He din say a word, how sweet “ and in a moments, mom echoes “Much like you” , I jus looked on his eyes., He gave a grin , he put his hands in his pocket and a took out his hands, I was eager to know what it was., but..his hands were closed., yuh it was big enough to curtain what was in..My favorite game it is, to open his hands…I smiled at him and started my encounter…All my weight over him., all my strength @ his hands..Finally managed to open his little finger…The big man din bother about that…I tried ma best to unhook his next finger..thou it was tougher., There flashed in my mind, the cheat code…He had a tickle point…I tickled him and he burst out in laughter…”Ok ..ok I’ll show u now…” We all had smiles in our face.,from the heart…He opened his hand to bring it to light…That was a cute gold ring..
He asked me show my fingers and he slided it on my ring finger…
I was amazed how well It fits in my finger.., how did he knew the size very well..I jus said myself “After all He knew me so well, coz he loves me so much”.
That night, I was just staring at it and didn’t knew when I slept…
The next day in school, It was all flaunting (kid yaar !! ;) ) ,
Sounds funny, Shaking hands with everyone to sport it, and boastin sayin , yuh its my dad’s gift..
That weekend we went to our native..An amazing place..Beach view from the bedroom, what more…I always had a fascination to play at beach, demanded my dad to take me to beach, and he did so…It was 7 in the morning…Had a great time in water thou I don’t know swimming..Time jus rolls off there, it clocked 9 and my dad said Its high time and we gotta get back home…Unwillingly walked off the shore…Had a bath in a nearby sump., To the panic., I noted I didn’t have the ring in my finger..I was afraid to say that to my dad, but managed to say him., I thought I would be scolded at the moment, but my dad jus asked are you sure you wore it when u came to beach…I nodded an yes…He took me back to beach shore and confirmed the place where I was playing…That beach was so shallow, and Its full of coral reefs [Kind of cup shaped rocky structures in sea bench) in the shore…We both had a walk there glimpsing at the enigmatic sea, knowing its impossible to get the ring back...He took me in his arms and said, “ Fine if its for you , you’ll definitely get it back…We’ll get back home.., Don say it to mom, coz she’ll screw you for that, I’ll get you a new one once we reach Chennai.. “ I nodded my head, as we walked back from the shore..I turned back at the sea with a grief in my eyes for it swallowed my dad’s gift..
He wanted to make me comfortable and embraced me. We reached home, The day was busy with the rituals happening in the temple..Ma mom was too busy to note my lost ring. Thou I was in the temple, all ma heart was over the ring., All I wanted is to get the lost ring back, and not a new one, Not everything in this world can be replaced, and that’s what termed as emotion..
The sun started to melt in the sea , and we all were back at the home., Whenever we stay in our native, we prefer sleeping in the terrace, but that day I was not comfortable there., with my thoughts pre-occupied. I came down and had a nap in the bedroom, My dad backed up, I saw him sleeping next to me when I broke out of sleep in middle of the night..I smiled, and resumed my sleep…
With the warmth of the morning sun, woke up at 6, and rolled over ma dad..He woke up by then., Native’s special , A sort of Palm extract juice was served, had a gulp of it, My dad asked “Do u wanna go to the beach? “ , I said nothing, but he wanted to take me, So we went, He spoke about how he spent his childhood days over there, and the bet he had with his friends to sleep in the cemetery for a night., Of course he did it., It took 20 minutes to reach the beach. I din step in the water, we both sat near the shore, where I lost the ring, We were talking about the sea monster, blue whales, and Sri Lanka which was few Kilometers away from that place by sea thou all my heart was over the lost ring, All of a sudden, to my astonishment, I could see something glittering under a coral reef, It was morning sun and It glittered well under a cup shaped rock which had shrub in it, My dad noted I’m intrigued by something there, He din take his sigh out of me as he watched me moving towards it, I put my hands in it, to unveil the mystery. I jus jumped out with all the energy in heart, and with the ring in my hand, My dad was awestruck, he jus came to me, hugged and said “I said you yesterday, If something is for you, no matter what, you’ll get it, all you need is to bestow your trust on it and on the soul of the world…” Thou I didn’t understand what’s the soul of the Earth by that time.
I was so happy that day, It was the day I started believing If you do something with all your heart on it, you can “Rewrite your Destiny” , I don have the man now who gifted it, but even now wheneva I look at it, I jus say I’m lucky I had him in my life, for he thought me the best of living..
The world is so big and it threatens you for your desires, but all you need is envisioning your dreams, believe it from the heart, give your fullest dedication…At the end of the day, no matter what It’ll be yours and you can “Rewrite your Destiny”
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Yeah they thought we were kids, they didn't knew they were wrong...We were 10 @ that time., The last benchers JK, Rajesh , Ratheesh and Deepak ! We were DONning the class., Gang wars, Politics, Revenge, a nerve full of wrath and wat not in level 5 ;) ...Class mates have never dared an eye on eye to us., that was the pride by that time., Days rolled of.. bullyin and stabbin their butt wit pencil weren't enough to DON 'em...We wanted to give them an Impact..The group of 4 met in a terrace one evening, ultimate objective was to keep the reign in control...Deepak voice out-bursted there.."We gotta do something that these dumb heads shud stay the same foreva" the trio acknowledged.."SO watz gonne be that ? " exclaims Rajesh...And a hush of silence prevailed there...Again It was Deepak's voice "I've seen the +2 boys smoking cigar., how 'bout that ?? ", with a bunk full of tremor in throat comes out Ratheesh "Watz with it now !! " JK yells "Common we r gonna do that years ahead of 'em !! " and there goes the plan....Lets first name the mission says JK, followed by a handful of worthless suggestions..Rajesh whoz alwayz considered to be the techie of the gang came up with a name which impressed the rest trio...They now call it as " Black Diamond Dinosaur "....
What nxt ?? Schedule...Deepak is alwayz good at it...he was residin at a place few Kms away from our school and it was kinda out of viscinity...So thatz gonna be the start spot....Mission would be executed @ 6 in the eve, comin saturday amidst the bushes of nearby railway station...SO now whoz gonna bring what...A proud voice, JK "I'll be the major contributor, Ma dad use to smoke, I can bring cigar" and followed by others with rest of tit bits...Now Plan was totally under control...It was friday eve, Max enthu wit the gang...We've made the mission name familiar in the class , but they weren't aware of wat exactly it is...
Saturday...things were perfectly executed as per the road map.., All under the bushes near "X" railway station., Get set, Go, Fired up the cigars and right into the first puff.., Deepak was perfect in it., We were caughin aloud., neva give up., we went on till the last puff., It was done., Felt an extra nerve in us ;) It was all like an achievement..After a series of mouth refreshers..I din speak to ma mom that eve once I reached home..."Operation Successful" A pat on the back !!
Monday morning, the school assembley got over, 1st hour..their started the braggin, Loose talk...may be...but everything was out now., and info spreaded from last bench to first bench..mates starin at us awestruck...It was the limelight for our gang...We shared a valiant smile..That evening, A blaaack sheep from my class disclosed to our class mistress who was inturn his tuition mistress too.. Scene closes here..
Next Morning, to be precise, tuesday morning 9.15 all the 4 were acused for this and litigated in AO's room [the terror] , There we had the investigation for about an hour, by 11 in the morning our parents were called...There came my dad, He listened to the entire story...He had a laughter hidden inside the throat but the locale stopped him. He was informed that we were suspended for a week, he apologised and swore them that It'll neva happen again...He took me back home, said "Appa ta keta kuduthurka poraen, yen da idhella !! seri edhuvum ammata solla venda seriya "[Now Thats why I say , I had the World's best Dad..Muaahhh !!! ]
So that made things different.....The first and Last Cigar is anywayz a thrilling mishap for me to look back, Isn't it ;)
Friday, June 5, 2009
Did you just blow it? Are you feeling embarrassed, humiliated? And worse . . .do you feel like a failure?
Those are some pretty harsh judgments on your part. Do you deserve them?
It’s one thing to feel regret and live with the intention of doing better in the future, avoiding a repeat of that mistake. But it’s something entirely different to judge yourself to be a failure or to be "bad" in some way because you made a mistake.
This is not a new concept. . .everyone makes mistakes!
It’s how you react to the situation that makes you who you are. If you want to be a forgiving person, then you forgive yourself. If you want to learn from the mistake and come away a better person, then you will take the action necessary to accomplish that. And you have to take that action. Only someone who does nothing can avoid making mistakes.
You are entitled to mistakes. We all are. Live with it! And know that you are deserving of forgiveness and trust. You have the power to carry on and make the best of it. Use that power.
"Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat."
Ma mom not at home and so Me and my close friend went to dine @ a restaurant nearby...This restaurant caters to children and gives each a helium-filled balloon if they would like it.
There was a family sittin next to our table, mom dad and 2 cute children. Both these children had a balloon drifting close by.The small boy appeared to be about six years old. Late in the meal something made his balloon pop. It obviously startled many of us in the vicinity, including the boy. He sat there for several moments with a distressed look on his face, and after what seemed to be a valiant effort, he burst into tears and buried his head in his mother’s arm.
Several adults around him, including both his parents, had laughed. I couldn’t help wondering if he cried because he thought he wouldn’t get another balloon, or because it scared him, or perhaps because he was embarrassed by the laughter. Not all children like that kind of attention being focused on them. This child could have felt very self-conscious.
If he was embarrassed, it is really unfortunate that all those adults added to it. Each of them might have hoped their laughter showed the boy it was OK. Each might have laughed simply because they were startled and were reacting to the innocent reason for it. Each one may have had perfectly harmless intentions in their laughter. But should we assume that children interpret all laughter as fun, because that was the intent? Should we assume a child will understand what our intention is? If we could, instead, react with empathy, we might choose to stifle the guffaws.
Though children deserve to have us always try...It’s never been easy to always put yourself in another’s shoes.... [:)]
Monday, April 20, 2009
It might look funny or cranky for you ,jus read it!!
We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules
from the male side. These are our rules! Please note ... these are
all numbered '1' ON PURPOSE!
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints
do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it.
That's what we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect
us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the
ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.
1. Christopher Columbus did not need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach,
for example, is a fruit, not a color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have
no idea what mauve is.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," we will act
like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, expect an
answer you don't want to hear.
1.Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.
1.Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous. You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.
1.We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
1.Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you. Don't "feel bad." We enjoy doing it.
1.Don't flirt with guys when we're not around. We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere. And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you.
1.Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.
SO guyz would have been smiling readin this, and girlz red hot...anywayz itz jus a blog...Keep Smilin...
Thursday, April 16, 2009
I certainly believe its one of the most toughest situation in anyone's life to believe what your eyes see, what your senses listen and what your soul agrees, when the person you love the most can consider you to be a scrap....
Only by the time when your most loved ones break your heart you would be able to feel the presence of two different entities in your bag of bones. Yes the brain will say "you are ditched" and heart sayz "Whateva be it !! All I know is to Love and keep loving "....
You'll know every little thing, you will feel so small, but all u could do is to love....
But what makes life go on in its tract is the eternal satisfaction of offering love straight from heart....No matter what they give back.....
Every relationship, is bound to fall apart when you start keeping things to yourself.
Secrets don't destroy things...but suspicion does..
Life is so simple If you could be an open book, not to every one, but atleast to your loved ones. And that make a glib in relationship and keep it going on and on foreva !!
Trust and staY Trustable.... !!!
Friday, March 20, 2009
Monday, March 16, 2009
meant to be there... to serve some
sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or
help figure out who you are or who you
want to become. You never know who
these people may be but when you look
eyes with them, you know that every
moment that you are with them, they
will affect your life in some profound
way. And sometimes things happen to
you at the time that may seem horrible,
painful and unfair, but in reflection
you realize that without overcoming
those obstacles you would have never
realized your potential, strength,
will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason!
Nothing happens by chance or by means
of good luck. Illness, injury, love,
lost moments of true greatness and sheer
stupidity all occur to test the limits
of your soul. Without these small
tests, life would be like a smoothly
paved, straight, flat road to nowhere,
safe and comfortable but dull and
The people you meet affect your life.
The successes and downfalls that you
experience can create who you are, and
the bad experiences can be learned
from.... In fact, they are probably the
most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you or
breaks your heart, forgive them because
they have helped you learn about trust
and the importance of being cautious
to whom you open your heart. If someone
loves you, love them back unconditionally
not only because they love you, but
also because they are teaching you to
love and open your heart and eyes to
MAKE EVERYDAY COUNT! Appreciate every moment and take from it everything
that you possibly can, for you may never
be able to experience it again. Talk to people who you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, even if it doesn't seem right because you are too young or too far, just follow your heart. Surround yourself with those who make you smile, laugh, and make you happy.
Break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create your own life then LET GO and LIVE IT!